Solvable vs Unsolvable Relationship Problems

By David Steele Relationship issues can generally be divided into “solvable” and “unsolvable” problems. Solvable relationship problems are generally related to your Needs. The most common relationship needs are emotional and functional. Your emotional needs are what you need to feel loved. Your functional needs are what you need for your life to work in […]

She/He’s Hot! Now What? How to Use the Rule of Three for Conscious Dating

By David Steele The “Rule of Three” has many incarnations and applications, as a cursory Google search will reveal. In the area of relationships, you may have heard that the “third time is the charm,” and while that has certainly been true for me, I’m not recommending getting divorced twice to find your life partner. […]

Rules of the Road for Effective Communication

By David Steele   Nobody likes conflict, yet the most innocent words or actions can result in an argument, even with the best of intentions. Don’t wait for your next argument- read this article now to learn nine “Rules of the Road” for effective communication and conflict resolution in any relationship that are key to […]

Roommates or Soulmates? Radical Romance Is the Key!

By David Steele   What is the secret of those couples you see walking down the street hand in hand, so obviously in love that everyone around them can’t help but watch and smile, and perhaps even feel a bit envious. Life Gets in the Way Falling in love is easy. Staying in love can […]

Role of Commitment in Coaching Relationships

by David Steele, Founder of Relationship Coaching Institute The question of when a relationship is committed is a source of much confusion and debate. We live in a time when the marriage rate is going down, the co-habitation rate is going up, and the majority of first-born children are now born to unmarried parents. In […]

Quiz: Do You Have a Radical Marriage?

By David Steele   (Excerpted from the book Radical Marriage: Your Relationship as Your Greatest Adventure) Most couples don’t want an ordinary, boring, routine relationship. They want excitement, fun, closeness, love. We need security, but we also need adventure. Radical Marriage is a paradigm for the next evolution of marriage and new territory for committed […]

Marriage ROCKS (No Matter What You Hear Otherwise)!

By David Steele   People are attracted to marriage, but they are also afraid of it. Despite its historic and important role in our society, the institution of marriage is facing an existential crisis. As we write this, fewer people are tying the knot, the divorce rate is at an all-time high, and “till death […]

How to Make a Long Distance Relationship Work

How to Make a Long Distance Relationship Work Have you ever met someone – someone who has the potential to be The One – but they live in a different state?  Is it worth pursuing?  You fear it might not work, but also wonder what to do if it does… and you find yourself in […]

Instant Dating: How to Get a Date Within 24 Hours

By David Steele   As the holidays approach I get many inquiries from singles who don’t want to be lonely while their family and friends are cozily spending quality time together. These singles don’t want to be alone during the holidays, they want to have fun with someone! So I got creative. If you’re single […]